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Static-ky Hair and Bottomless Pits

There are days like today where I can hardly look in the mirror.

My hair is so static-ky my nephew recommended attaching fashionable feathers to it to complete the flying chicken look.

My face is so pale I glow in the dark.

And the hours I’ve spent agonizing over the Yoga ball in various planks seem wasted and laughable as I stare at my unchanged silhouette.

Yep, it’s winter, and I simply hate it.

It’s about this time of year that I tell myself 3 things.

  • I’m glad I’m single and don’t have to succumb another human to my present appearance.
  • I’m glad it gets dark early and I don’t have to look at myself as long.
  • I’m glad I blog and can share these atrocious details of my life with the world at large.

I’m in a deep pit bottomless pit of self pity.

I keep hoping someone will walk by and get me out, but all I hear is the echo of my own complaining.

If only I could move to Hawaii. I’d solve 2 out of my 3 imminent problems. A tan and static-less living sound pretty good to me right about now.

Ever found yourself in the throes of a pity party that’s too deep to navigate through?

There’s no map detailed enough to get you out of it.

There’s no book long enough to guide you through it.

There’s no motivational speech strong enough to break through it.

There was a man named David who found himself in a similar pit once – although I’m pretty certain his pit wasn’t about static-ky hair and pale skin! Here’s what he said about it in Psalm 40:1-3:

“I waited patiently for the Lord, he inclined to me and heard my cry. He drew me up from the pit of destruction, out of the miry blog, and set my feet upon a rock, making my steps secure. He put a new song in my mouth, a song of praise to our God. Many will see and fear, and put their trust in the Lord.”

If you’re in your own pit of self pity, here are 3 things to consider:

1. You don’t have to pull your way out of it, all you have to do is cry out. God is loving enough to pull you out of the deepest pit.

2. You don’t have to work your way out of it, all you have to do is wait. God is timely enough to work your way out of the longest pit.

3. You don’t have to talk your way out of it, all you have to do is sing. God is good enough to give you the brightest song in the darkest pit.

When you’re facing static-ky hair and bottomless pits: Wait. Cry. Sing.

And as you stop looking at yourself and turn your focus upward out of the pit and onto the Lord, your life will start making the kind of lasting impact you long for it to.

Now that’s a promise from God’s word!

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  • Milo

    Jer 33:3i. Is very appropriate. call on God. god cares for our heart attitudes rather than our looks. Keep looking up, out of the pit and He surely will pull you out. very funny.

  • Ruth

    Amen! May God turn our focus upward moment by moment and day by day…so easy to turn eyes to self. would love to see the feather on your hair your nephew suggested:)

  • http://kentostby.com Kent

    I had a similar day yesterday.

    Spent quite some time crying out to God, but in very Davidic ways like “Why did you make me like this?” etc.

    God is good and my wife is kind.

    When I told her I was going to bed at 6 because I didn’t want to deal with life, she said “okay. Should I wake you up for NCIS?”

    I always remember what God had Elijah do in the midst of things — Sleep, Eat, and Drink.

    We are both spiritual and physical creatures and we need to nourish both parts sometimes.

    I am also glad that you blog as you say many things that others of us think about and deal with, but are afraid to talk about lest people think we are crazy.

    • Lina

      Your wife is hilarious kent! I’m laughing out loud!!

  • Gina

    Morning :) oh static hair I understand. My hair always seems to look like that.almost a chicken lil-look.you are a funny,intelligent,humble genius.
    God has heard me cry out/sing.he pulls me out of the.for everywhere naturally does for us.keeps me striving to be better not only 4 myself but others. Happy Wednesday Dr.L :)

  • Gina

    I guess ill have to stop writing in code. My mom&I do that.miss her.She’s my silent Angel.only wish she understood this.

  • Jennine G

    I thought your hair looked good last night – I couldn’t see the static.

    • lina

      u were sitting too far away!!! believe me, it was static-ky!!!!!

  • Diane Jordan

    Thanks for the reminder Lina – so true and such good timing!

  • Kathleen

    Thank you for the encouragement…staying home from work today in prayer for my prodigal son, yes, feeling sorry for me too b/c I love him so much and this hurts way more than I can bear. Never thought a pit could go so deep but am trusting in the Lord. Prayers for my son Sean, 19 yrs. old, would be such a blessing to me today. Looking upwards!

    • lina

      praying for you to be encouraged and your son to be touched by God.

    • Diane Jordan

      Kathleen- I will pray for you and your son. Keep trusting God – I have been there but remember HE loves your son more than you ever could and HE wants your son to come to Him. It will be HIS plan and HIS timing. Don’t give up or despair – keep praying.

  • Kimberly

    I think you should just keep a box of dryer static sheets in your car to rub on your head! Unscented would be best, unless you want your hair to smell like roses, or lavender. Just a thought….:)

  • susan nelson

    Wow This reminds me of a memory of my lovely Granny. I watched her put this vo5 that came in a tube, she would put it in the palms of her hands and rub it over her hair. Of course I had to try that and made my hair so greasy smile. Anytime I have a memory of her is sweet so thank you! Seriously, your post are right on where I am lately. Waiting, crying and singing.

  • Gina

    Jennine ur hilarious. U thought or knew my hair looked fab? it tends 2 do its own thing no matter how much product I put into it.remember im older and slightly have skittles more wisdum;)

  • Betsy

    This is so weird but I felt compelled to call you this a.m.and let you know I was praying for you. No I’m sorry I didn’t – I was picturing interrupting you in the ER

  • Amber

    I love how you always bring it together with real life and what God’s word say’s. The truth is we really don’t want to wait for anything and we want God to fix things now not later. I think Psalm 27:13-14 says it prefect…

    I believe that I shall look upon the goodness of the Lord
    in the land of the living!
    Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage;
    wait for the Lord!

  • Connie Hildreth

    Lina, I can’t tell you how much your honesty and openness encourages me. I’ve had my fair share of pits through life and as I look back I can see God’s hand in every one of them. I only wish I were more observant while in the pit. I don’t know why it’s not as easy to see and feel God’s presence then.

    And now about that stat-icky hair. I have fairly long hair and dread the winter for that particular reason. I’ve struggled my whole life…boo hoo, cue the violins. But then, not two weeks ago, I was sharing my plight with one of the women in my small group and she said, with out giving it a second thought…”oh, all you have to do is put some hair spray on a comb and lightly brush through your hair, just once, and you won’t have any problem with static again.” I don’t think she realized that in that moment she had changed my life forever…cue Oscar nod. Ok, maybe I’m being dramatic but her idea truly worked! I’ve tried everything, with no success, and this little trick worked like a charm. I promise. :) . So style your hair just how you want it and then, ever so lightly, run a hairspray-covered comb through it once. Now you’re going to want to wash the comb with soapy water after every use or you’ll end up with an icky comb.

  • Gina

    Connie that tip is awesome :)

  • Gina

    Kathleen,I put ur family on my prayer list.stay strong.